For everybody that has talked to me about their relationships this weekend, from the broken up, the about to break up, the trying to get together, or the confused (six is the number this weekend) these are the words I have. Just as everybody says, life will move on; no ifs, ands, or buts. You will grow, you will get over it, you will forget. And they will do the same. You already know the reasons so I will not explain why going back isn't possible. Breaking up is nearly impossible. Think back to when you had to take you dog or cat to the vet to be put down, you cried the whole way there, you looked in your pet's eyes and saw the pain and you knew you needed to let go. That is easier than breaking up, but you can't hold on forever and life will yank you appart if not moving in the same dirrection. To start one all over, sometimes you need to make the leap, forget your past, know the possibility of pain in the future but don't be afraid of it, each relationship is easier than the last and the heart runs out of room for scars. And finally the last one, act like the person you want to be, and you be that person and eventually you will forget what you were before you started acting. Everything here is in your head, there is nothing anybody can do for you or to you, just as you have the ability to act and control your dreams you have the power to change what your mind thinks.